It's literally 6 a.m. and I should be sleeping or better yet, studying. Instead, I am awake "thinking" and looking through various social media sites and what I am TIRED of seeing has gotten me so worked up I decided to vent on here.
People are all over social media complaining about how much their lives stink and how they have no one. Nearly every retweet is about their "miserable" lives.... GOOD GOSH! Why do you think you have no friends? Let me take a stab at this here. Could it be because you post crap like that when you DO have people in your life willing to do anything for you and they get to see that nonsense?
Idc if you have one person in your life who cares for you, it exceeds what some people have so why not look at your life with rose colored lenses instead of alienating the people you DO have in your life.
Oh, and ladies when you get a new boyfriend that you look at and heart fly out of your behind, DO NOT forget those who were there before him. That is the quickest way to lose friends and to become estranged from others in your life.
I know that in life we have become selfish. I am even guilty of it on occasion HOWEVER anyone that knows me knows I have an extremely giving heart. Where I am going with that is, if you feel no one includes you, perhaps you should look in the mirror and ask yourself why INSTEAD of going to Facebook and twitter. I mean seriously I wouldn't want to be included in something because someone felt sorry for me after I had posted a "oh woe is me" story. I would want to be included because they truly had me on their mind.
Why are we never satisfied with what we have? The people we have? Can I just tell you that those people you do have are sitting back feeling pretty worthless when they see things like that. Why not give your all to those people who DO SHOW they care about you? I know I want my circle to be about people that prove to me through actions not about those who feel obligated because I complain.
When you begin to think your life is so horrible think about those little innocent babies who are sleeping on the streets at night. Think about the elderly people who are stuffed in nursing homes and have not had visitors in years. Think about the children who are dying from disease and from starvation. YOUR life doesn't "stink" nor is it pathetic. You are lucky you have the life you have. You are lucky to be alive. It's insulting to those people who ARE in your life. It's insulting to GOD.
If you feel alone, go volunteer at a nursing home. Go volunteer at a hospital. Read a book to educate yourself. Do not go on social media and make things worse. Your words hurt others. You're hurt because you were left out? Well think about what it feels like to those who continually are there for you seeing that your life is HELL and how you have no one. THEN sit back and ask yourself could that be why......
My advice, take inventory of yourself and you just may find an answer.
